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Seeking a Distinguished and Extensively Referenced Live-In Domestic Couple for a High-Profile Household in Lugano
Are you a seasoned Domestic Couple with impeccable credentials and a proven track record of excellence?
Are you seeking a career-defining role that reflects your professional stature within a prominent, elite family?
Do you wish to have your expertise, dedication, and professional value fully recognised?
Then we invite you to join our distinguished network.
Submit Your Application via our Website:
Or via Email: hr@thexerendipity.com
Hundreds of professionals have achieved both personal and professional fulfilment within the prestigious families we represent across Italy and Europe.
Apply today to secure an unparalleled opportunity with the elite households that only Xerendipity can offer.
The Domestic Couple must possess a minimum of 5 years’ demonstrable experience in similar high-level environments.
Provision of verifiable references from previous households is a mandatory requirement for our rigorous vetting process.
The Role of the Live-in Domestic Couple
As a Live-in Domestic Couple, your multifaceted roles include:
Butler Service & Front of House Specialist:
- Full responsibility for all service duties, including breakfast, lunch and dinner
- Delivery of formal table service, including Silver Service, alongside polished informal dining
- Expert table setting (mise-en-place) to formal and family standards, tailored to daily household requirements
- Meticulous care, cleaning, and correct storage of silverware, crystal, fine china, and the butler’s pantry
- Professional collaboration with kitchen staff to ensure seamless service
- Primary responsibility for guest hospitality, ensuring guest quarters and personal preferences are impeccably managed
- Oversight of exterior presentation standards, including the pool area, pathways, garden maintenance coordination, and garden furniture arrangement
- Technical oversight of household systems (security, electrical, and climate control), with timely liaison with specialist contractors where required
- Adherence to professional presentation standards, including wearing the uniform and white gloves provided by the family, as required
- Guest reception and the coordination and supervision of external contractors, vendors, and maintenance personnel
- A genuine love of dogs is essential.
Housekeeper – Cook:
- Full responsibility for all service duties, including breakfast, lunch and dinner
- Provision of formal and informal table service to the highest standards
- Expert table setting (mise-en-place) in line with daily household requirements
- Meticulous care, cleaning, and correct storage of silverware, crystal, and fine china
- Preparation of high-quality family meals
- Management of occasional dinner parties and guest entertaining
- Expertise in healthy, fresh, family-style Italian cuisine
- Comprehensive pantry management and grocery procurement
- High-end residence management, including routine maintenance of floors, dusting, and specialist vacuuming
- Deep cleaning of windows, drapery, and delicate surfaces, using appropriate products and methods
- Laundry and wardrobe management, including the care of fine household linens and the family’s luxury wardrobe
- Preservation and careful handling of luxury furniture and fine art
- Adherence to professional standards, including wearing uniform and white gloves as required
- Guest hospitality and the coordination and supervision of external contractors and vendors
- A genuine love of dogs is essential.
Full availability for international travel and relocation with the family to seasonal residences (mountains, seaside, and yachts).
The couple must be exceptionally flexible and capable of managing last-minute adjustments communicated by the household.
Superior organisational and time-management skills are essential; we are seeking individuals looking for a long-term professional commitment.
Must exhibit the highest standards of professionalism, initiative, and proactive problem-solving.
Punctuality, absolute reliability, and unwavering discretion regarding the family’s privacy are non-negotiable.
Position – Accommodation for the Domestic Couple
The family is primarily based in Lugano, Switzerland.
The Domestic Couple will be provided with: An independent, private residence situated within the family property.
Working Hours and Schedule
- Monday – Saturday
- Saturday afternoon and Sunday: Rest days.
- Flexibility is required as rest days may occasionally be taken separately.
- Maximum adaptability regarding shift changes is a prerequisite.
Language Proficiency
The Domestic Couple must possess a high command of the Italian language.
Essential Requirements
- A valid Driving Licence (Category B) with extensive driving experience.
- Prior experience within high profile households with impeccable, verifiable references.
Commencement Date
Although the start date is yet to be confirmed, the selected Domestic Couple is expected to be available to start as soon as possible.
Remuneration and Benefits
- Monthly Net Salary: CHF 4,000 per person
- Overtime: Remunerated as extra-duty pay
- Provision: Full Board and Private Accommodation (including utilities)
- Service Vehicle: Provided for professional duties
(Remuneration request exceeding the stated budget will only be considered for exceptionally qualified candidates with elite UHNW references).
Professional Qualifications for Domestic Staff
For further information regarding the role of Domestic Couple, please visit:
For details on our reference verification protocols and best practices, please consult our dedicated article:
La Best Practice Standard per le lettere di referenze e raccomandazione
Would you like to find out where your future might lie?
CV Submission Requirements:
Your CV MUST include the following mandatory data protection consent:
“I hereby authorise the processing of my personal data in accordance with Legislative Decree 196 of 30 June 2003 and Article 13 of the GDPR (EU Regulation 2016/679) for the purposes of recruitment and personnel selection.”
Xerendipity: Elite Domestic Staffing | Referenced, Experienced, and Guaranteed for 12-18 Months
About Us
Xerendipity High-Profile Domestic Staffing is a premier international consultancy headquartered in London, UK.
We operate exclusively with discerning, high-level HNW and UHNW families, ensuring all candidate contracts are fully compliant with the legal frameworks of the family’s country of residence.
Our global reach extends across Europe, Russia, the UAE, and the USA.
https://domesticstaff.thexerendipity.com/who-we-are/
To apply for this job email your details to hr@thexerendipity.com.

